What Today Means
I struggle every year with what to write on this day. And, so often, I feel like I’m saying the same thing over and over again and I fear repeating myself.
But then I really think about it and I realize… it can’t be said enough.
Today is Memorial Day in the United States (I do have some international readers… so I like to preface that…) and I just want us all to remember what Memorial Day is really about.
Memorial Day is not about a day off of work. It’s not about a three day weekend. It’s not about a trip to the beach. It’s not about cookouts or firing up the grill. It’s not about the pool opening. It’s not an excuse to party. It’s not a reason to be lazy. Yes, it’s a holiday, but it’s one we should really think about what it represents.
It represents the men and women who gave their lives in service to this country. It’s about the men and women who lost their life as a result of their sacrifice and their service for this country and its freedom. And it’s not just about the men and women who so bravely fought in battle or lost their lives in war… it’s about the hundreds of thousands of those who have died since the war or since their time in service.
My mom died this way. She served in Vietnam and she died because of her service to our country. She just happened to die 30 years after she served. And she’s one of many. Yet, and maybe because I’m biased, I feel like those men and women are all too often forgotten.
I am not, BY ANY MEANS, downplaying the sacrifice and the deaths of all of those who died in battle. I just don’t want us to forget the veterans who have died since their time in service, but because of their time in service. Some veterans are still battling their time in service.
They battle everything from depression, to cancer, PTSD, diseases that don’t even have names, and so much more.
I just don’t want us to forget about them. Let’s not forget about them.
So, in the midst of your cookouts (I’m enjoying one today, too!), in the midst of your three day weekend, in the midst of our time off… let’s just take a moment to thank those who have gone before and given so much during and after their service.
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Beautiful post and a perfect reminder for all of us about the true meaning of the day! Xo, Stephanie
Thank you so much for including me in your “Let it Shine” feature! So honored and love Still Being Molly!
Chelsea
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Love this post <3 Thank you for sharing XO. Sending Love…
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You are so right about what today should be. Thanks for the reminder! And thanks to your mom and the others like her. Sorry for your loss. You have a lot to be proud of in her.
Such a beautiful post Molly! As a Canadian it is nice to hear American’s discussing what this day should (and is) really about for you guys. It is an honour to read a post from someone who cares about the true meaning of the day. Thinking of you and your mom on this day <3
Xo
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Thank you for sharing this beautiful reminder of what memorial day is really about. I’m sometimes guilty of thinking about it as a day off and not really taking the time to honor what this day is really for.
AMEN! Thank you for sharing. It’s also about the families 🙂 of the women and men who serve. Thank you for being the daughter of a woman who served and your sacrifice! Thinking and praying for you on this day Molly. XO
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Thank you to you, your beautiful mom, and your family for the sacrifices you made for our country and your fellow Americans. We are celebrating and honoring our soliders in this house today – and every day. I would love to hear more about your mom’s story if you ever want to share. I am sure she would be so proud of her girl today. Blessings Molly. Susan
I remember that wonderful photograph from last year and an am pleased to see it again. I hadn’t realised it was Memorial Day again in the US, so yes, keep on reminding us! It’s always important. Thanks for hosting, and I hope that you’ve had a lovely weekend with your family x
You bring up a good point about those that die from the effects long after. They rarely are considered in these kind of memorials, be it days or statues. Thanks for sharing.
In the midst of the cookouts and lounging, etc. the significance of the day can get lost. Thank you for the reminder.
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I think you did a wonderful job explaining what really is significant about Memorial Day and paying tribute to your mother. I am definitely guilty of seeing this as just another day off, but in truth the day is about so much more. Thanks for sharing.