Admitting You’re Wrong, Doesn’t Mean You’re Weak (& Link-Up)
Top: Elegantees via The Flourish Market (Use code STILLBEINGMOLLY for Free Shipping) | Jeans: Stitch Fix | Earrings: Nickel and Suede | Necklaces: Tiffany and Co (gift from hubby), oNecklace c/o (Use code MOLLY10 for 10% off), and The Giving Keys | Bracelets: Endless Jewelry c/o | Watch: Wristology Watches c/o (Use code 45 for 20% off) | Bag: Michael Kors c/o Shopbop | Shoes: The Root Collective (Use this link for 10% off)
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.
Why do we live in a culture that makes us feel like admitting we were wrong or admitting we messed up or asking for help somehow means we’re weak?
I just feel like I see so many people ashamed or afraid to say the simple phrase, “I don’t know” because they feel that if they say they don’t know, that somehow they’re inferior, or immature, or <insert another negative adjective here>.
Therefore, we will just “fake it ’till we make it” and pretend like we know what we’re talking about or attempt something we’re not totally sure of because we just don’t want people to think we aren’t capable. We don’t want to appear weak.
But I beg to differ.
To me, the ability to say, “I don’t know” or “I was wrong” or “I made a mistake” shows maturity, strength, and confidence.
Real life side note… Amos was hanging out with me for the shoot this day… and, well, there he is asleep off to the side… haha! 🙂
I realize this might seem random, and as per usual, doesn’t have a whole lot to do with the outfit… but the point remains. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve gotten better and better at learning to admit when I’m wrong, when I don’t know, or when I’ve made a mistake. I’m certainly not great at it and I get it wrong all the time, but… I’m getting there.
The more I can learn from my mistakes, my missteps, and know when I just don’t know… the more I can learn and grow and mature and, hopefully, not make the same mistake twice.
What about you? Do you find it easy or difficult to admit when you’re wrong or when you don’t know the answer to something? It is something you struggle with, or is it something that just comes natural to you?
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What size is the Flourish Market top?
I’m wearing an XL in this top 🙂 but it is generous, so a large would fit, too
Thanks so much!! It looks so cute on you!!
Loving the various shades of blue …. you look fabulous!! and your post is one many I’m certain need to be reminded that it’s ok to not know something, or to admit you made a mistake. I think at one time or other we all feel a little insecure … thanks for hosting and inspiring today..
Great message and one I needed to read, and what an even greater outfit Molly, loving that top.
Rachel xo
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I have always had problems admitting when I’m wrong and I still struggle daily, but I’m getting better at it. Thanks for sharing this along with that gorgeous outfit. Love that blouse and your earrings!
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I needed this post today! Thank you. I never did have a problem admitting when I was wrong or didn’t know something…when I worked in a corporate environment…and people respected that. Like really respected it. Now that I work as a stay at home, I am my own worst enemy and my own harshest critic. While it is easy for me to tell other people it’s okay to admit when you need help, etc. I have a hard time taking my own advice. Silly, right?
By the way, you are rocking these blues again! Such a fabulous color on you. I love this peplum top, too. So cute. And the picture with Amos is hilarious. Thanks for the chuckle! And thanks for the reminder to take my own advice!
Shelbee
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Great post and love your outfit XOXO!! Would love to have you stop by and #LINKUPWITHLISA @ http://www.beauty101bylisa.com/2016/05/linkupwithlisa-50-my-favorite-black.html
It takes a humble person to admit they are wrong. But telling the truth helps you to grow up and learn from it. So that is why I find it so freely admitting I am wrong because it shows me that I am human. It also helps me grow from it.
Great message and I agree 100%. As I get older, I’m learning that it’s OK not to know something and it’s definitely OK to ask for help.
~Whitney
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I loved your message today. I agree, it takes strength and courage to admit your wrong. I have no problem saying, “I don’t know.”, but admitting a mistake or being wrong is tough! Still, I try to own up. Beautiful outfit, by the way. Love the peplum, and those flats are really cute. Thank you for hosting the link up! ~Jane
Such a great post! I agree with you 100%. Admitting you’re wrong takes courage and a good healthy dose of humility! Also – that top looks awesome on you. It is a great color!
I couldn’t agree with you more. Admitting you are wrong, or don’t know are indeed signs of maturity.
Love this look too. Your peplum top is beautiful!!
xx, Elise
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I feel like that’s such an important and true life lesson. My husband is a high school teacher and he talks about how when he makes a mistake he doesn’t play it off like he didn’t–he makes a point of letting his students know that even adults and teachers make mistakes, and that’s part of being human. I love that. I love your outfit (especially that fun peplum top!) too! 🙂
Agreed 100%! I try to be humble and REAL in all that I do – including sharing my mistakes.
Love that top Molly! So cute to see your family growing 🙂 Back to blogging after taking a break! Thanks for the link up as always.
xo Lulu
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a great thought, especially on a new week/monday morning. thank you!
elle
Southern Elle Style
What a great post and I completely agree that admitting wrong makes us stronger internally. You look beautiful in blue and I love your necklace.
xo Sheree
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Love your necklaces.
Thank you for hosting and hope you are having a fab week!
Alice
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Hope to see you Thursday for TBT Fashion link up.
I adore your peplum top and, as always, such a great and insightful post. I totally agree – admitting a mistake or admitting you are unsure of something is a sign that you are mature enough to recognize when you need assistance.
XO
Lee | LegalLee Blonde