I Need Africa
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Shirt: I Need Africa / Mocha Club | Chambray: Old Navy | Jeans: Old Navy | Shoes: TOMS | Necklace: The Mighty River Project | Bag: Noonday Collection c/o
It’s no secret that I love Africa.
I’ve served as a missionary there in Kenya twice. I’m heavily involved in a few ministries that support micro-business in Africa. I sponsor a child in Kenya. I’m working with our church on the launch of a campus in Nairobi, Kenya! And heck, we did an entire African-themed nursery for our baby.
Overkill? Nah.
Well, I wore this outfit a few weeks ago, and it was by total accident that I put each piece of this outfit together. It was not a conscious decision, really.
And suddenly, I looked in the mirror and realized I was like a walking advertisement for fair trade and Africa. Or something.
Anyway. I love this shirt. I realize it’s not “high fashion” or “trendy” or whathaveyou. But it’s me. And it says something that I’m super passionate about. And it’s a conversation starter.
Because, inevitably, people are going to ask me, “Why do YOU need Africa more than Africa needs you?”
And the answer is that Africa has much more to teach us than we realize. Africa doesn’t need our pity and our charity. Africa needs our love and our friendship… but more importantly, WE need the gifts that Africa can give us. We need the lessons that Africa can teach us.
Going to Kenya taught me so much. I came back from Kenya that first time completely changed. My entire worldview shifted.
Kenya taught me that love in our heart is more important than the love of things. Friendship is more important than possessions. Family is more important than wealth. A warm meal is more important than the latest pair of shoes. A good, healthy, hearty belly laugh is more important than the latest Beyonce album. Time spent alone with God is more important than any bonus at work.
I could go on.
It’s times like now, just coming off the Christmas and holiday season – a season that has often turned so materialistic and so “stuff” oriented, that I have to remind myself what’s important. I have to shift my focus. I have to recenter myself and my priorities.
And, as crazy as it sounds, something as simple as this t-shirt does that.
Does that make me a weird person? Maybe. But I’ve always been kinda weird, so I’m not really looking to change anytime soon. 🙂
What about you? What things do you need to refocus on this year?
Simply love it! Totally agree Africa can teach us so much if we are willing to stop feeling pity and fear. Do you have any post on your experiences in Kenya?
hey cookie!! i do! you can see all my posts from BOTH trips in this archive: http://stillbeingmolly.com/category/kenya/
LOVE THIS!!! My family is from Nigeria. I LOVE Africa too! So nice to hear what you have done and are doing for a place you love! I need that shirt too!
get it!!
Any time I see something related to Africa I think of you. This is definitely you. Love your refocus.
You are amazing Molly! I love that necklace too, its so me
You are such a wonderful person Molly! I love your passion and your love for people, culture and places. You are so right about the true meaning of life. I am a new fan. Like, really! 🙂
oh thank you so much, anwesha!!
I really need to re-focus on consistent self-care, exploring faith for myself and family, and strengthening my romantic relationship with my husband. 🙂 I am prone to measuring my self worth by work accomplishment. I would like to measure worth in these other endeavors as well.
Good post, thanks!
I have always been fascinated with Africa too. It is such a beautiful place. I feel as if Americans try to change it, when we should be just perhaps teaching them helpful ways to improve upon the systems they already have in place. I am pretty certain that Africa will never want to be like NYC and that is OK!!! I would love to hear more about your mission work. That would make for some interesting reading!! I am shifting my focus back to Christ and placing Him back in the center of my life where He belongs. Thanks for this inspiring post! Susan
thank YOU for this, susan!!