How Stitch Fix Changed My Style (& Link-Up)
It is crazy to think that I have been receiving fixes from Stitch Fix for over two and a half years! To be quite frank, when I first learned about Stitch Fix in 2014, I was at a point in my life where I was six months postpartum, I was totally unhappy with my body, I was in a major style rut, and I absolutely despised getting dressed every day. I just felt awful.
Sure, I wrote this blog and styled outfits for the blog, but I just was feeling very uninspired, if you will, by my closet. I thought Stitch Fix might be something fun to try and I thought I might enjoy it. I had no idea what it would do for me…
The fact is, Stitch Fix hit a “reset” button on my style that needed to be hit for so long.
This is a picture from my first fix… I only kept one thing from that first fix, but I knew right away that I loved the concept, I loved the service, and there was something special about it.
It took a couple of months, but after about 3 or 4 fixes, I found a stylist, Kimberly J. who just GOT me. I could tell she knew my style and really listened to my feedback! Kimberly J. has been my stylist ever since – TWO YEARS! I have never met her in real life, but I just adore her.
What I love is that my stylist has pushed me out of my comfort zone and had me to try on things that I would have never in a million years picked out for myself. I know there have been pieces that I have grabbed out of the box and said, “Oh no WAY am I going to like that!” And, inevitably, I end up loving it!
I remember I thought this top (pictured below) was going to look like a curtain… and it ended up being one of my favorite tops ever!
And then, in September 2014, I had the insane and incredible privilege to fly out to San Francisco to visit the Stitch Fix headquarters and warehouse. I remember asking my husband if it was a prank or something when they invited me… I didn’t believe it! I was so excited! But anyway, learning all about the heart and SOUL of the company made me fall in love with them even more. It was amazing getting to see how it runs and how much they truly care for their clients! Plus, I got to meet some other amazing bloggers (and that’s also how my Nickel and Suede addiction began because that was right after Kilee (pictured far left) had launched N&S!)
The thing that I have learned about myself and my style over the years is that it’s all about filling your closet with pieces that bring you JOY and make you feel beautiful and confident. It’s not about amassing a bunch of “stuff” or a bunch of clothes just to have them, I only buy things that I know I LOVE and that I know I will wear over and over and over again.
So many of the pieces I’ve purchased from my fixes I have worn and worn and worn and will wear for years to come. And every time I put them on I feel confident and beautiful.
I’m not going to lie, confidence is STILL something I struggle with. I’m a size 14 / XL. I’m 5’4″ on a good day. I’m not stick thin. I’ve had two kids and my body is not what it used to be… but I’m actually MORE confident in myself and the way I look now than I ever have been. And while Stitch Fix and my stylist haven’t been the entire reason behind that, they are certainly a huge part of it. I realize that may sound silly, but I’m completely serious.
When I was at a point in my “style rut” where I literally dreaded getting dressed every day because I was covered in spit up or exhausted because I was running on no sleep, the simple tips and the style cards from my Stylist were the motivation I needed to just TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT. That’s all I needed! It was a kick in the pants to get over myself and just try something new.
Then when I got pregnant with Amos, I was so excited because I was able to keep receiving fixes and try out Stitch Fix maternity. Even as my body changed again, I loved trying on new things that boosted my confidence and made me feel a whole lot less frumpy. 🙂
And now, two and a half years later, I feel like I’m entering my prime. 30 has been awesome (I’ll be 31 this month! GAH.) and I feel like I’m finally starting to really hone in on who I am and how that shows through my style.
I also love that in my quest to fill my closet with things that are ethically and sustainably made, I love that Stitch Fix has also been able to be a part of that too! Kimberly J. has been so awesome to send me pieces that are made in the USA, made by companies who give back, or companies that are sustainable and doing it right. She’s awesome for always hearing my feedback and taking that into account with each and every fix!
It’s amazing how much can change in two and a half years. Heck, it’s amazing how much can chance in two and a half weeks…
But when I look back at the pictures of me when I first received my first fix and then look at the pictures of me now… I see such a world of difference behind those eyes. More mature, more confident in who I am, and I love that I’m not afraid to try something new… especially when it comes to my style.
What do you think? How has your style changed over time? Have you tried Stitch Fix? How has it changed your style?
*This is not a sponsored post. I receive my Stitch Fix fixes on a monthly basis because I choose to and I love the service, the company, and my stylist so much. The link to try Stitch Fix is an affiliate link and I do get a small commission if you click through and sign up to receive a fix of your own. If you do sign up for Stitch Fix, you also have the ability to share and refer people and receive a credit of your own. Thank you for reading!
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I really like the concept of Stitch Fix – having beautiful clothes specially selected that are ethically sourced is a great idea. Sometimes we all need a nudge to try something out of our comfort zone, and the items you’ve received are fabulous!
Emma xxx
http://www.style-splash.com
I love Stitch Fix! It hasn’t really changed my style but it has taught me to appreciate spending a little more money on long lasting classic or basic pieces. I have branched out of my Target and Old Navy rut and am satisfied with investing in my clothes rather than settling with cheaper stuff. And I love following along with your fixes, living vicariously through you when I can’t find it in my budget to get my own fix!
I love your SF posts. I so want to try again but I had great success in the beginning. Then three total duds. Then I tried two more times over a year later and they were both just a joke. I was so bummed. I’m hopeful simply because I see how it’s been so great for you and other friends! I’ve been shifted around to different stylists so maybe that’s part of the challenge. No time to get to know my style. I want it to work!
You really received some excellent fashion from Stitch Fix! The blue and red look is really pretty.
I love Stitch Fix and I agree that it’s a great way to break out of a style rut. I think I found out about Stitch Fix through your blog, so thank you for that!
Aww, this is so awesome! I love seeing how your style has evolved and my only problem in signing up for it is that I am afraid I will love everything every month and my wallet would hate me!
xx Kelly
Sparkles and Shoes
Molly, you have largely influenced me in my personal style finding…I find you incredibly adorable and you ROCK everything you wear. After reading this post, I learned that we are the identical size, and it encourages me because I struggle with my size and shape (after 3 babies) as well and you are just totally beautiful and so stylish!!! <3 I love following your blog and your fashion. 🙂
The 3rd and last installment of my festival style campaign with UK brand BOOHOO is now up at the blog – come check it out & lemme know what you think!
Happy Monday!
Rebecca
http://www.redtagchiclosangeles.com
Wow I LOVE this post! It is giving me all the feels. I’m so happy to have read your experience with Stitch Fix, as it is SO not just about the pretty clothing. I appreciate your beauty and honesty!
I’m so stoked you got to go to the HQ and meet the team! What a special experience!
–Roxanne
Glass of Glam
Such a great post, Molly! I love that you found a way to boost your confidence and get out of your style rut. I think motherhood damages the confidence of many women as our bodies change and we become so, so tired! It definitely did for me. And it is so wonderful when we can find ways to love our amazing bodies again and feel fabulous in our clothes!
Shelbee
http://www.shelbeeontheedge.com
Stitch Fix has been a game changer for me too. We live in a tiny town that is void of shopping. The closest (decent) mall is 90 miles away. I love that Stitch Fix gives me the opportunity to shop from home, as well as the chance to try items I would never choose for myself. I always love your Fix posts! Susan
I love reading about this! Although I’ve never used Stitch fix, this post made me want to give it a try because of their level of customer service and how they really try to understand the needs of individual customers. I’m glad that you were able to find all the great pieces throughout the years.
xo Sheree
http://poshclassymom.com
IG: @poshclassymom
Looks like you’ve gotten some great pieces through this service.
Thank you for hosting and hope you are having a fab week!
Alice
http://www.happinessatmidlife.com
Hope to see you Thursday for TBT Fashion link up.
super cute and thanks for hosting!!