Adulthood (& Link-Up)
Cardigan | Top (Madeline tunic from Elegantees via The Flourish Market) | Bag (All from The Flourish Market – Use code “STILLBEINGMOLLY” for free shipping) | Jeans: Stitch Fix | Earrings: Nickel and Suede | Shoes: The Root Collective (use this link for 10% off) | Cuff: Branded Collective | Watch: Wristology Watches (Use code “45” for 20% off) | Necklace: Journey Lockets c/o
I honestly can’t remember exactly when it happened. But, one day, it happened. A switch flipped. I realized I was an adult.
You guys know exactly what I’m talking about… the moment when you realize that you’re not a kid anymore, that you’re not in college anymore, that you’re no longer really even a “young adult.” You’re just a full fledged… ADULT. Doing all of the adulting things and all of the stress and responsibilities (and BILLS) that come along with that.
But even moreso, one of the things I’ve been learning more and more as I get older is about learning to be MYSELF as an adult. I’m no longer the version of the person that I used to THINK I should be, or the person I used to think OTHER PEOPLE thought I should be… I’m just me. Quirks and all.
I’m not saying I don’t have insecurities (I do!), and I’m not saying I think I’ve got it all figured out (I REALLY do not), but I do feel way more confident in my own skin and in my own body and in my own life than I ever have before. 
I don’t know what it is about adulthood that makes us totally look back at every single little thing in life and go, “I stressed out about THAT?!” or “Why on earth would I do THAT when I was younger?” or “Did I really think THAT was important?”
I hope I’m making some sort of sense…
What about you? When did you realize you were an “ADULT”? What was the hardest part about transitioning to adulthood for you?
It’s the Let it Shine Link-Up!
This link up has been going on for over FOUR years!!! And we want to change things up a little bit… Carly and I are teaming up to do more than host our link up…. we are teaming up to share brands that we love – brands that create CHANGE. Each week we’ll be collaborating with one of our favorite brands to share good they are doing in addition to their amazing products. If YOU have a post (new or old) that features a brand that give back…..please include it in the link up. We’d LOVE to see it!
Check out Carly in her MOLLY Tunic from Elegantees!!!
This week we are teaming up with Elegantees. Most of you know (and love) Elegantees…….are amazing (and comfy) tops, dresses, and cardigans that provide hope and employment to victims of sex trafficking in Nepal. Their tees are flattering, versatile, and a GREAT price. Pretty much, how could you NOT love them? (Use code “MOLLY” for 10% off your purchase!!!)
This week, we are loving:
/ perfect plaid shirt / stylish trench vest /
What a good read! I do think as you get closer to 40, confidence in yourself increases (at least that’s what I’ve heard!). I definitely struggle with insecurity but find little by little I’m okay being me! And also I’m sure you’re not even close to 40! That might have come out wrong! Lol! I should just stop talking. 😂
I can totally relate to this post, especially during this season of my life. This adult thing is NOT all it’s cracked up to be, lol. But it has taught me a lot of valuable lessons. When I turned 30 a few months ago, things really clicked. Like, yea…I’m grown. LOL! Still thankful for the lessons tho. 😉
~Whitney
http://www.whitneynicjames.com
I think it hit me when two out of my three girls had milestone birthdays this year. One turned 21 and one turned 18. So yea I was denying it until now. LOL
Arrggghh. Adulting is so overrated, right?? I really do not remember when I felt like a full-fledged grown-up BUT ask me how old I feel, and I’ll immediately say 29. For some reason, it’s like I stopped realising (ok, admitting) I was continuing to age the moment I turned 29 hahaha does that even make sense? And cool beans, new site layout. I haven’t been going around the last few weeks and then I come here, bham. New look 🙂
And I really do hope you’ll come by the blog today, I’m trying something new. A giveaway. I’ve styled three looks using the same shirt dress, and I’d like to know which is your fave outfit. In return, you stand to win a Beauty Giftpack 🙂
Right here https://sheelagoh.com/2016/10/18/karma-chameleon/
I totally agree that one day it was like a switch just flipped and I was an adult. Sometimes I totally wish I was still a kid with no responsibilities but then I also love the “complete freedom” of making my own choices. Love this post!
I still have days where I don’t feel *quite* like a full-fledged adult yet. But I totally get what you mean about looking back on the things you used to worry about and thinking, well THAT was silly! Yay for adulting!
You are so very right about adulthood. While I do not have any of the answers, I’m happy with who I am.
Nina
aworldofdresses.com
Being a mum makes me feel like an adult…well sometimes! I find myself saying the same phrases my mum said to me as a child. I love your long cardigan and that gorgeous crossbody bag!
Emma xxx
http://www.style-splash.com
P.S. I really wish there was a way to delete my own link in the link up. The link is correct, but I accidentally put the wrong picture in on the second one.
Amazing look! Love that kimono, you styled it perfectly.
I love how you’re changing up your linkup–you already do so much to promote brands that give back, so this goes right along with that. I’m always inspired by your dedication to ethical fashion. Love this look and I totally agree with what you said about being an adult. For me it was maybe after I became a mom that I truly felt like a real adult… and it scared me to death, ha! 🙂
You look comfy and relaxed in this outfit!
ahhh adulthood … what I have learned over the years – there are no mistakes just learning experiences … each experience good and not so good take us in the direction of our purpose. Being comfortable in our skin is definitely the first step. You are well on your way to living your best live!! great post 🙂
Love your insights on being an adult!!
Don’t forget to check out this exciting outfit for the last installment of my collaboration with fashion forward brand STAYING SUMMER this week at the blog!
Happy Monday!
Rebecca
http://www.redtagchiclosangeles.com
I don’t know when I turned into an adult either, and although it can be stressful, there is also a peace about it like you mentioned! My sister is currently in high school and thinking back to those days makes me so happy that I’m more comfortable with myself now than I was back then!!
Fizz and Frosting
I hear you girlie, adulthood is hard! This look is so cute and comfy at the same time!
~ xo Sheree
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