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This week on Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder, we’re sitting down with the incredible Abbie Halberstadt. Abbie is a wife, homeschooling mama to 10 amazing kids, a best-selling author, blogger, and fitness instructor. But most importantly, she’s a Bible-believing Christian with a deep desire to know God and make Him known.

Abbie lives by the motto “Hard is not the same thing as bad,” and she passionately encourages women to dig deep in the everyday trials of motherhood to uncover the treasures of joy and growth that are abundant if we’re willing to look.

In this episode, we dive straight into a rich conversation about her newest book, Hard is Not the Same Thing as Bad,which echoes this philosophy. We explore what it looks like to navigate the trials of life, motherhood, and everything the world throws at us.

It was an absolute honor to have Abbie on the show, and I just know you’ll be as inspired by her as I was!

2:30 – Abbie 101

  • Wife, mom, and Christian living in Texas
  • Best-selling author
  • Married to a supportive and wise partner
  • Trust and teamwork within a family

16:55 – Hard Is Not The Same As Bad

  • Where the idea for this book came from
  • The hard teaches us something
  • Who Abbie had in mind when writing this book
  • Motherhood is not a burden

31:01 – The Gift of Parenting

  • How motherhood is commonly portrayed today
  • Ignoring voices that encourage complaining and victimhood
  • Seeking strength and support from God
  • Giving children purpose and responsibility at home

48:47 – Takeaways

  • Psalm 27:13
  • Connecting with Abbie

FEATURED QUOTES

“The hard teaches us something. Hard is not the same thing as bad.”

“Moms need to hear that the Lord is good regardless of your circumstances, that motherhood is not a burden, that it is, in fact, a blessing from the Lord.”

“Dig deep into Jesus and kick out those voices that are telling you can’t and you’re a victim. And then also take the practical steps to prepare yourself and your children to have peace in your home and good rhythms, because they will pay off over time.”

Learn more about Abbie:

M Is for Mama

Abbie’s book, Hard Is Not The Same Thing As Bad:

Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad

Abbie’s book, M Is For Mama:

M Is for Mama Book

Abbie on Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/M.is.for.Mama

Abbie on Facebook:

https://www.facebook.com/MisforMama

Abbie on Pinterest:

https://www.facebook.com/MisforMama

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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?

Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world. 

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🎊 ONE WHOLE YEAR 🎉

My debut memoir, “If I Don’t Laugh, I’ll Cry” has been out in the world for one whole year today. Writing this book was hard and holy work, and it’s been such a joy to see how many of you have laughed, cried, and laughed till you cried.

Thank you for the support of this book. ❤️

If you’ve read it, would you do me a *huge* favor and leave a review on Amazon and Goodreads? And would you share the book with a friend or on social media? It would mean the world to me.

And if you haven’t picked up a copy or downloaded the audiobook yet, what are you waiting for? 😉

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🎊 ONE WHOLE YEAR 🎉 

My debut memoir, “If I Don’t Laugh, I’ll Cry” has been out in the world for one whole year today. Writing this book was hard and holy work, and it’s been such a joy to see how many of you have laughed, cried, and laughed till you cried. 

Thank you for the support of this book. ❤️

If you’ve read it, would you do me a *huge* favor and leave a review on Amazon and Goodreads? And would you share the book with a friend or on social media? It would mean the world to me. 

And if you haven’t picked up a copy or downloaded the audiobook yet, what are you waiting for? 😉 

#ifidontlaughillcry #iidlic #nelsonbooks

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📷 @katelynjames

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Would he love snuggling or be a boy who only wanted hugs on his terms?

Would his eyes be brown like his dad’s or would he be covered in freckles?

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Would I be mommy or mama or mom to him?

So many questions I won’t get to answers to on this side of heaven. But I think about him today, just like every day, and I hope he’s getting a slice of strawberry cake for his heavenly birthday.

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I often wonder if he’d be a red head like Amos or if he’d be musically gifted like Lilly. 

Would he love snuggling or be a boy who only wanted hugs on his terms? 

Would his eyes be brown like his dad’s or would he be covered in freckles?

What would his laugh sound like? Who would be his best friend? What would his favorite book be? Would he say Gen Alpha slang words like sigma and skibidi or would he love his mom too much to do that? 

Would I be mommy or mama or mom to him?

So many questions I won’t get to answers to on this side of heaven. But I think about him today, just like every day, and I hope he’s getting a slice of strawberry cake for his heavenly birthday. 

7 years. 🤍 #elijahtimothy

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